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Images_3 This week’s most popular article in the New York Times reports that there are more single (unmarried, divorced, widowed) women in America today than married ones.  This is the first time that this demographic statistical shift has occurred in the US. Female

For what experts say is probably the first time, more American women are living without a husband than with one, according to a New York Times analysis of census results.

In 2005, 51 percent of women said they were living without a spouse, up from 35 percent in 1950 and 49 percent in 2000.

Coupled with the fact that in 2005 married couples became a minority of all American households for the first time, the trend could ultimately shape social and workplace policies, including the ways government and employers distribute benefits.

Several factors are driving the statistical shift. At one end of the age spectrum, women are marrying later or living with unmarried partners more often and for longer periods. At the other end, women are living longer as widows and, after a divorce, are more likely than men to delay remarriage, sometimes delighting in their newfound freedom.

In addition, marriage rates among black women remain low. Only about 30 percent of black women are living with a spouse, according to the Census Bureau, compared with about 49 percent of Hispanic women, 55 percent of non-Hispanic white women and more than 60 percent of Asian women. …

“This is yet another of the inexorable signs that there is no going back to a world where we can assume that marriage is the main institution that organizes people’s lives,” said Prof. Stephanie Coontz, director of public education for the Council on Contemporary Families, a nonprofit research group. “Most of these women will marry, or have married. But on average, Americans now spend half their adult lives outside marriage.”

Rest of the article here.

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6 responses to “Single-minded Bliss”

  1. Woo-hoo! More single women! That is great news. Well…it would be if I weren’t, you know… a socially awkward introvert with neurological issues (and allergies and dry skin and male pattern baldness). Still, though. Great news. Woo.

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  2. Well, at least you have a sense of humor… the women will appreciate that. Just don’t tell them about Dean.

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  3. “Just don’t tell them about Dean.”
    I guess if I did that I might get romantically plutoed.

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  4. Dean C. Rowan

    This thread prompts me to mention one of my favorite contemporary fiction authors, Anita Brookner, whose novels typically involve a single woman and her intellectual, aesthetic, romantic, and existential concerns. Splendid stuff. One of my professors, Rachel Moran, has been writing recently about single women, specifically in terms of their cultural marginalization (that is, until this Times story appeared, I suppose). The letters to the Times regarding the story are worth a glimpse, too.
    Now, the next frontier is illustrated by the other comments in this post. Who says women, single or married, are necessarily resistant to ménages a trois?

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  5. Very good point, Dean. I stand (quite happily) corrected.

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  6. I forgot to add: purrrr…

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